"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Trap of Yersterday/Tommorow

Blue Dude

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I was reading the nre DJ Bible Redone, and red about "Traps". More specificly trap of yesterday and trap of tommorow.
The reason I am mentioning this here is becouse I have a habbit of falling for these traps all the fcking time. But yesterday I didn't. EVERY single time when I started thinking about, What happend and how it influenced me" I thought to my self "dont fall for the trap of yesterday. And every time I was starting to think about this girl I was too meet later that same evning and what we are gonna do, I reminded my self to "not fall for trap of tommorow". LIVE NOW! Thats what I was telling my self. Look around. Yersterday is not NOW. Tommorow is not Now. NOW IS NOW! Tommorow will come and Yesterday, fck yesterday! So I went doing my own thing, concetrating on just what is happening around me and shait like that and in the end I had GREAT NIGHT!
The reason I belive is becouse I didn't overanalysed what is gonna happen when I meet this girl or for the rest of the night. I didn't have any expectations. And so, I couldn't feel sad or anything if night didn't went too good. Cuz everything is above expectations since I didn't have any expectations. So night ended and I went home and sleept like a baby. :up:

So my final words, dont fall for trap of yasterday or tommorow!:nono:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Blue Dude said:
I was reading the nre DJ Bible Redone, and red about "Traps". More specificly trap of yesterday and trap of tommorow.
The reason I am mentioning this here is becouse I have a habbit of falling for these traps all the fcking time. But yesterday I didn't. EVERY single time when I started thinking about, What happend and how it influenced me" I thought to my self "dont fall for the trap of yesterday. And every time I was starting to think about this girl I was too meet later that same evning and what we are gonna do, I reminded my self to "not fall for trap of tommorow". LIVE NOW! Thats what I was telling my self. Look around. Yersterday is not NOW. Tommorow is not Now. NOW IS NOW! Tommorow will come and Yesterday, fck yesterday! So I went doing my own thing, concetrating on just what is happening around me and shait like that and in the end I had GREAT NIGHT!
The reason I belive is becouse I didn't overanalysed what is gonna happen when I meet this girl or for the rest of the night. I didn't have any expectations. And so, I couldn't feel sad or anything if night didn't went too good. Cuz everything is above expectations since I didn't have any expectations. So night ended and I went home and sleept like a baby. :up:

So my final words, dont fall for trap of yasterday or tommorow!:nono:
I like the message, but you didnt write it too well.

I suggest rereading it and rewriting. Its a bit jumbled.


But yeah. I completely agree with you. Keep fighting it and live in the now. Its much better.
 

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Acting in the NOW, means there is No Opportunity Wasted. I completely agree with you, I live with tomorrow in mind, but my mind only cares about NOW.
 

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Why the hell do people quote entire posts? I'm getting sick of seeing it happen. The only reason to quote someone is to quote a specific part of their post in order to reference it directly. It's so pointless and such a waste of space to quote the entire damn thing.
 
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Well thanks for making it clear. It's actually a force of habit.

Next time: Could you please state your disatisfaction clearly? Without complaining like a woman?

Thanks hon.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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