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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Trap of Yersterday/Tommorow

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I was reading the nre DJ Bible Redone, and red about "Traps". More specificly trap of yesterday and trap of tommorow.
The reason I am mentioning this here is becouse I have a habbit of falling for these traps all the fcking time. But yesterday I didn't. EVERY single time when I started thinking about, What happend and how it influenced me" I thought to my self "dont fall for the trap of yesterday. And every time I was starting to think about this girl I was too meet later that same evning and what we are gonna do, I reminded my self to "not fall for trap of tommorow". LIVE NOW! Thats what I was telling my self. Look around. Yersterday is not NOW. Tommorow is not Now. NOW IS NOW! Tommorow will come and Yesterday, fck yesterday! So I went doing my own thing, concetrating on just what is happening around me and shait like that and in the end I had GREAT NIGHT!
The reason I belive is becouse I didn't overanalysed what is gonna happen when I meet this girl or for the rest of the night. I didn't have any expectations. And so, I couldn't feel sad or anything if night didn't went too good. Cuz everything is above expectations since I didn't have any expectations. So night ended and I went home and sleept like a baby. :up:

So my final words, dont fall for trap of yasterday or tommorow!:nono:
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Blue Dude said:
I was reading the nre DJ Bible Redone, and red about "Traps". More specificly trap of yesterday and trap of tommorow.
The reason I am mentioning this here is becouse I have a habbit of falling for these traps all the fcking time. But yesterday I didn't. EVERY single time when I started thinking about, What happend and how it influenced me" I thought to my self "dont fall for the trap of yesterday. And every time I was starting to think about this girl I was too meet later that same evning and what we are gonna do, I reminded my self to "not fall for trap of tommorow". LIVE NOW! Thats what I was telling my self. Look around. Yersterday is not NOW. Tommorow is not Now. NOW IS NOW! Tommorow will come and Yesterday, fck yesterday! So I went doing my own thing, concetrating on just what is happening around me and shait like that and in the end I had GREAT NIGHT!
The reason I belive is becouse I didn't overanalysed what is gonna happen when I meet this girl or for the rest of the night. I didn't have any expectations. And so, I couldn't feel sad or anything if night didn't went too good. Cuz everything is above expectations since I didn't have any expectations. So night ended and I went home and sleept like a baby. :up:

So my final words, dont fall for trap of yasterday or tommorow!:nono:
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I like the message, but you didnt write it too well.

I suggest rereading it and rewriting. Its a bit jumbled.


But yeah. I completely agree with you. Keep fighting it and live in the now. Its much better.
 
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Acting in the NOW, means there is No Opportunity Wasted. I completely agree with you, I live with tomorrow in mind, but my mind only cares about NOW.
 
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Why the hell do people quote entire posts? I'm getting sick of seeing it happen. The only reason to quote someone is to quote a specific part of their post in order to reference it directly. It's so pointless and such a waste of space to quote the entire damn thing.
 
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Well thanks for making it clear. It's actually a force of habit.

Next time: Could you please state your disatisfaction clearly? Without complaining like a woman?

Thanks hon.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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