"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Trans and gender binary. What do you make of them?

What do you make of trans and gender non-binary people?

  • These people are delusional

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • They have a mental illness

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • They're just people living life their way and we should respect them

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • I don't understand it, but live and let live.

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Total voters
    7

Fzatf

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I'm of the position that you can pretend to be what you want but there are times reality needs to be utilized for decisions regarding these individuals. You can call yourself a toaster but at the end of the day, reality dictates the truth.

What's your position on these individuals? Do you respect preferred pronouns including the new ones such as ze? Do you raise your children to respect reality and learn to be okay with who they were born, or do you buy hormones and assist them with their gender transition? Are there two genders or several?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt

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If I had declared myself trans, I think I woild have done a lot better as an mma fighter. There is a dude who did that in Florida, and now he gets to fight girls. I have seen it in some high school sports, even. It is a lot easier for a boy to get a college scholarship when he competes against girls.
 

Who Dares Win

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Zero fvcks given as long as they do not create problems to normal people.
 

Fzatf

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Zero fvcks given as long as they do not create problems to normal people.
I understand the position. But there are times it needs to be addressed. When they want to use government provided healthcare in countries like Canada or the UK to transition. When they compete against women in competitive sports when they were born a man. When they use steroids to transition from female to male and continue to compete against women. When they demand you use their preferred pronoun in conversation. When they want to use the same restroom as a young girl when they use to be a man. These are issues that come up and it goes beyond it's their life they can live how they want to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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I understand the position. But there are times it needs to be addressed. When they want to use government provided healthcare in countries like Canada or the UK to transition. When they compete against women in competitive sports when they were born a man. When they use steroids to transition from female to male and continue to compete against women. When they demand you use their preferred pronoun in conversation. When they want to use the same restroom as a young girl when they use to be a man. These are issues that come up and it goes beyond it's their life they can live how they want to.
If they need public money or special treatment, they are creating problems for my taste.
 
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