"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Trans and gender binary. What do you make of them?

What do you make of trans and gender non-binary people?

  • These people are delusional

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • They have a mental illness

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • They're just people living life their way and we should respect them

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • I don't understand it, but live and let live.

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Total voters
    7

Fzatf

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I'm of the position that you can pretend to be what you want but there are times reality needs to be utilized for decisions regarding these individuals. You can call yourself a toaster but at the end of the day, reality dictates the truth.

What's your position on these individuals? Do you respect preferred pronouns including the new ones such as ze? Do you raise your children to respect reality and learn to be okay with who they were born, or do you buy hormones and assist them with their gender transition? Are there two genders or several?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If I had declared myself trans, I think I woild have done a lot better as an mma fighter. There is a dude who did that in Florida, and now he gets to fight girls. I have seen it in some high school sports, even. It is a lot easier for a boy to get a college scholarship when he competes against girls.
 

Who Dares Win

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Zero fvcks given as long as they do not create problems to normal people.
 

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Zero fvcks given as long as they do not create problems to normal people.
I understand the position. But there are times it needs to be addressed. When they want to use government provided healthcare in countries like Canada or the UK to transition. When they compete against women in competitive sports when they were born a man. When they use steroids to transition from female to male and continue to compete against women. When they demand you use their preferred pronoun in conversation. When they want to use the same restroom as a young girl when they use to be a man. These are issues that come up and it goes beyond it's their life they can live how they want to.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who Dares Win

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I understand the position. But there are times it needs to be addressed. When they want to use government provided healthcare in countries like Canada or the UK to transition. When they compete against women in competitive sports when they were born a man. When they use steroids to transition from female to male and continue to compete against women. When they demand you use their preferred pronoun in conversation. When they want to use the same restroom as a young girl when they use to be a man. These are issues that come up and it goes beyond it's their life they can live how they want to.
If they need public money or special treatment, they are creating problems for my taste.
 
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