"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tramp breaks up with boyfriend, then brags about sleeping with 22 men in 10 days
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Up to gyroscope spin rates!
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She ditched the carousel and hopped on the Ferris wheel.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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And then you woke upMy wife divorced me and I focked a busload of Swedish cheerleaders before the ink was dry.
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That sounds like a nice dream you had.. You must be a deep sleeper to have such surreal dreams about banging bus loads of chicks.My wife divorced me and I focked a busload of Swedish cheerleaders before the ink was dry.
Did you ever watch the Carry On Films.
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She has an OnlyFans. Since I am doing no porn and no fap, I didn't look at pics.
She had a goal to have sex with 20 men and she exceeded it.
She is recreational use only and likely a good ride.
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He had just gotten some good stuff from a "coffee shop", and went walking around De Wallen with a wallet loaded with EUR.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I believe she had sex with 22 men in 10 days.
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Ding, ding! You sir have rediscovered the Pigeonhole Principle! And obviously she had at least 1 triple+ day.
Pigeonhole principle - Wikipedia
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Not over for QED-cels.Ding, ding! You sir have rediscovered the Pigeonhole Principle!
Pigeonhole principle - Wikipedia
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Mathematics is supposed to be about solving problems. Why is it that men who are good at Mathematics (many STEM guys) are also unable to solve the problem of getting their penis wet? Men talented in Mathematics seem to lack the ability to emotionally connect with a woman in order to seduce them.
They also wouldn't be one of the 22 guys having sex with an OnlyFans model over a 10 day period.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I'm sure this guy has discussed the Pigeonhole Principle.
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Even if that is true, for every Pietro Boselli, there are hundreds of incels or near incels who are talented at Mathematics.I'm sure this guy has discussed the Pigeonhole Principle.
Pietro Boselli
Website of Pietro Boselli, model, engineer and fitness athlete, founder of Petra Design. Find biography, portfolio, life story, quotes, fitness inspiration and links to all resources such as youtube workout videos and editorial interviews.
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While there is something to be said that men that have no fortune with women have more time & energy to devote to intellectual pursuits, there is also something to be said that having such intellectual pursuits is associated with becoming the best man one can achieve.
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That would be an awesome accomplishment if she was a dude. But being a woman, that´s f0cking gross.
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Also I cannot fvcking stand BB, he rambles on way too long, 50 minutes really?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.