"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tramp breaks up with boyfriend, then brags about sleeping with 22 men in 10 days
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Up to gyroscope spin rates!
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She ditched the carousel and hopped on the Ferris wheel.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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And then you woke upMy wife divorced me and I focked a busload of Swedish cheerleaders before the ink was dry.
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That sounds like a nice dream you had.. You must be a deep sleeper to have such surreal dreams about banging bus loads of chicks.My wife divorced me and I focked a busload of Swedish cheerleaders before the ink was dry.
Did you ever watch the Carry On Films.
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She has an OnlyFans. Since I am doing no porn and no fap, I didn't look at pics.
She had a goal to have sex with 20 men and she exceeded it.
She is recreational use only and likely a good ride.
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He had just gotten some good stuff from a "coffee shop", and went walking around De Wallen with a wallet loaded with EUR.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
pipeman84
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I believe she had sex with 22 men in 10 days.
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Ding, ding! You sir have rediscovered the Pigeonhole Principle! And obviously she had at least 1 triple+ day.
Pigeonhole principle - Wikipedia
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Not over for QED-cels.Ding, ding! You sir have rediscovered the Pigeonhole Principle!
Pigeonhole principle - Wikipedia
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Mathematics is supposed to be about solving problems. Why is it that men who are good at Mathematics (many STEM guys) are also unable to solve the problem of getting their penis wet? Men talented in Mathematics seem to lack the ability to emotionally connect with a woman in order to seduce them.
They also wouldn't be one of the 22 guys having sex with an OnlyFans model over a 10 day period.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I'm sure this guy has discussed the Pigeonhole Principle.
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Even if that is true, for every Pietro Boselli, there are hundreds of incels or near incels who are talented at Mathematics.I'm sure this guy has discussed the Pigeonhole Principle.
Pietro Boselli
Website of Pietro Boselli, model, engineer and fitness athlete, founder of Petra Design. Find biography, portfolio, life story, quotes, fitness inspiration and links to all resources such as youtube workout videos and editorial interviews.
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While there is something to be said that men that have no fortune with women have more time & energy to devote to intellectual pursuits, there is also something to be said that having such intellectual pursuits is associated with becoming the best man one can achieve.
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That would be an awesome accomplishment if she was a dude. But being a woman, that´s f0cking gross.
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Also I cannot fvcking stand BB, he rambles on way too long, 50 minutes really?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.