“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Train station DJing

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I was taking the train home from school early the other day, I think it was just about noon. I was kind of tired from a lot of heavy studying, and I didn't make sure to check out the girls around me. But then I noticed this pretty girl, about my age, was actually checking me out. When I caught her the second time she smiled as our eyes met. So did I, but as I said, I was pretty tired and not so convincing.

This would've been the perfect time to say 'hi'. Unfortunately the train came and we went to separate carriages. I think neither of us could resist the temptation of fleeing to safety. Unfortunately I chose the AFC way. I really wonder how I should've handled this.

How about some tips on those situations when you meet the eyes of a girl and you both smiles, but then all of a sudden the situation changes and you have to take your attention away from the girl and watch where you're going, whether it's for a train, or going to class or leaving for whatever other urgent business...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This article deals with my problem, to a certain extent. But what if we are taking the same train, and we'll probably both be on for at least half an hour? Should I go to her car right after I've had my ticket stamped? How should I approach her?
 

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Don't overanalyze the situation.
It is just a train. You are just a boy. She is just a girl.

You smile, she smiles, but you had to divert your attention - no biggie. You know where she's at. Once you have a moment, go up to her, say hi, smile, and let it flow.
 

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Luscious said:
Don't overanalyze the situation.
That's what my driving instructor said about me in traffic :p

Thanks for the advice. Just need to get out there, get the confidence. :up:
 
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