Train station DJing

[pr0teus]

I was taking the train home from school early the other day, I think it was just about noon. I was kind of tired from a lot of heavy studying, and I didn't make sure to check out the girls around me. But then I noticed this pretty girl, about my age, was actually checking me out. When I caught her the second time she smiled as our eyes met. So did I, but as I said, I was pretty tired and not so convincing.

This would've been the perfect time to say 'hi'. Unfortunately the train came and we went to separate carriages. I think neither of us could resist the temptation of fleeing to safety. Unfortunately I chose the AFC way. I really wonder how I should've handled this.

How about some tips on those situations when you meet the eyes of a girl and you both smiles, but then all of a sudden the situation changes and you have to take your attention away from the girl and watch where you're going, whether it's for a train, or going to class or leaving for whatever other urgent business...

 

[pr0teus]

This article deals with my problem, to a certain extent. But what if we are taking the same train, and we'll probably both be on for at least half an hour? Should I go to her car right after I've had my ticket stamped? How should I approach her?

 

[Luscious]

Don't overanalyze the situation.
It is just a train. You are just a boy. She is just a girl.

You smile, she smiles, but you had to divert your attention - no biggie. You know where she's at. Once you have a moment, go up to her, say hi, smile, and let it flow.

 

[pr0teus]

Don't overanalyze the situation.

That's what my driving instructor said about me in traffic

Thanks for the advice. Just need to get out there, get the confidence.