fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Why are some women so pissy about being touched?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Touchy feelings
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
I've never had objections to kino on the arm. Sometimes, when I go in for a hug, there's an objection. I don't go in for a hug until I personally feel a connection. At that point, if she objects, she probably has issues. One person that did object when I tried to give her a hug, came out of a hurtful relationship. Her defense was that she first wanted to be friends a long time.
If you just touched the arm or shoulder, that's cool. If you went for her jewels, and had just met, that's a different story. Need details to say, but you get the point.
If you just touched the arm or shoulder, that's cool. If you went for her jewels, and had just met, that's a different story. Need details to say, but you get the point.
gsxtreme1987
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lol what kind of touch you talking about here?
Ofcourse they woudn't like some random dude coming up behind them and feeling up on them...
but they wouldnt mind some touching(kino) when you guys are talking to each other.
Ofcourse they woudn't like some random dude coming up behind them and feeling up on them...
but they wouldnt mind some touching(kino) when you guys are talking to each other.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Personal space is a big deal for some people. Personally, I hate being touched by people I don't know very well, let alone strangers.
What kind of kino are you referring to? Because the arm/shoulder is universally okay, but if you don't know the girl and are touching her all over, yeah, I can definitely understand why she'd be "pissy".
What kind of kino are you referring to? Because the arm/shoulder is universally okay, but if you don't know the girl and are touching her all over, yeah, I can definitely understand why she'd be "pissy".
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm the same way. I don't prefer when people I barely know guy or gal stick there arms around me shoulder like we are best buds.girl_in_a_boy_forum said:Personal space is a big deal for some people. Personally, I hate being touched by people I don't know very well, let alone strangers.