"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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fertileTurtle

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Why are some women so pissy about being touched?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Not many people like being touched, let alone have their private space invaded by a stranger.
 
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I've never had objections to kino on the arm. Sometimes, when I go in for a hug, there's an objection. I don't go in for a hug until I personally feel a connection. At that point, if she objects, she probably has issues. One person that did object when I tried to give her a hug, came out of a hurtful relationship. Her defense was that she first wanted to be friends a long time.

If you just touched the arm or shoulder, that's cool. If you went for her jewels, and had just met, that's a different story. Need details to say, but you get the point.
 
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lol what kind of touch you talking about here?

Ofcourse they woudn't like some random dude coming up behind them and feeling up on them...

but they wouldnt mind some touching(kino) when you guys are talking to each other.
 
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girl_in_a_boy_forum

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Personal space is a big deal for some people. Personally, I hate being touched by people I don't know very well, let alone strangers.

What kind of kino are you referring to? Because the arm/shoulder is universally okay, but if you don't know the girl and are touching her all over, yeah, I can definitely understand why she'd be "pissy".
 

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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
Personal space is a big deal for some people. Personally, I hate being touched by people I don't know very well, let alone strangers.
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I'm the same way. I don't prefer when people I barely know guy or gal stick there arms around me shoulder like we are best buds.
 
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