Took a whole day to respond if she wanted to hang out

[BPH]

When a woman is interested in you, she'll find time. Many girls told me that.

Honestly this is the best piece of advice when it comes to flakes. If a flake happens and she doesn't come around offering another "date" I usually just forget about her.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Oh no doubt she is busy. But not too busy to crawl on her hands and knees over broken glass into the bed of any guy she is really attracted to. Keep in mind she had time to go on the hike where OP met her. No one is too busy to go out on a date.

I've learned not to put much stock in it. Have had plates that took a few minutes to the next day to respond and everything in between.

The only thing that matters is when he actually asks her out if she meets up with him. Anything else is just speculation.

 

[nzrod]

Mate, I haven't read the other responses but this one is very simple. 1) you wrote "i texted her after a week since I was occupied with work" - you showed VERY low interest, too low, and played it too cool. Then 2) "She disappeared for a whole day and messaged me back late in the night saying yes hoping she gets some time off at work." - you think her not responding for one day is a big deal?!

Further, she is a doctor so she would be busy. She confirms this by "hoping she gets some time off work".

There is ZERO to read into this. Enjoy and relax.

 

[Learning Curve]

I’m 27 average looking man who likes writing code for a living. I met this girl on a solo day hike where we tagged along till the summit and clicked a few pictures. We exchanged numbers to share the pictures.

She is a resident doctor at a hospital in the city and is currently doing her specialisation post grad there. I really liked her personality and she seemed high value compared to the women I’ve met in the past.

i texted her after a week since I was occupied with work and I said something funny to which she responded.

after a day of exchanging texts I asked her if she was interested in hanging out?. She disappeared for a whole day and messaged me back late in the night saying yes hoping she gets some time off at work.

My question here is that does she have low interest and was just avoiding saying no to me and should I pursue this a little more or move on ? I’ve not asked her out yet since I’m going out for a short vacation and will be occupied for another whole week when I’m back.
I did exchange my number with a few more girls while on the hike but then I’m don’t see them adding any value to my life so have not asked them out yet.

So many responses on a simple answer.

Maybe she is busy, maybe not who cares?

You show insecurity by making a thread about this. You should be indifferent to what her time-frame of responding is.

If she takes a day, take also a day to respond or a few hours at-least no need to play too many games. The point is to schedule a date and get out from the phone.

Don't f3uck with your brain on her time-response because you will lose long term. Mirror her actions that's it.

 

[SW15]

It has been 10+ months since this incident. I'm sure @Wicked has forgotten that she ever existed.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Most professionals who have a life tend to be super busy.. I wouldn't think too hard about it.