Too Soon To Invite Over To Hang Out???

[DharmaBear]

Hey gang,

I just set up a date with a HB 8 I work with (we're going skydiving - not a bad first date!).

Things are going well with us, good flirting, kino, etc. It's moving slowly, and something that's developed over the last year at work (it's not always a good idea to be overDJish at work, so I was easy with the flirting and careful until I felt certain she dug me).

We just set up this date yesterday, and it's for a week and a half from now (that's just how our schedules worked out, vs. when the skydiving place is open).

My question: Would it be AFC of me to call her now and invite her over to hang out and watch a DVD with me tonight or tomorrow night (I know it's something she wants to see), or since we finally cemented this date yesterday is it too soon and/or pushy? Should I just wait 'til this skydiving date?

Help!

-Dharma

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by DharmaBear
Hey gang,

I just set up a date with a HB 8 I work with (we're going skydiving - not a bad first date!).

Things are going well with us, good flirting, kino, etc. It's moving slowly, and something that's developed over the last year at work (it's not always a good idea to be overDJish at work, so I was easy with the flirting and careful until I felt certain she dug me).

We just set up this date yesterday, and it's for a week and a half from now (that's just how our schedules worked out, vs. when the skydiving place is open).

My question: Would it be AFC of me to call her now and invite her over to hang out and watch a DVD with me tonight or tomorrow night (I know it's something she wants to see), or since we finally cemented this date yesterday is it too soon and/or pushy? Should I just wait 'til this skydiving date?

Help!

-Dharma

if u can be confident about it, go for it, depending on her IL (wich u said u got a good feel of) u can watch with friends or alone, its not bad with friends if they got their own girls or w/e

 

[Ice Cold]

Wait till you skydive. It's should be such a fn adrenaline rush, she'd fall in love with ya.

Cheers

 

[DharmaBear]

See, that's what I was thinking - that the adrenaline, etc. from skydiving will really escalate the emotions, and then BAM! She's putty in my hands. I do plan on that.

But, I'm worried that it's just too long between now and then to wait and see her outside of work. I usually don't set up dates 12 days in advance. Besides, it would be nice just to hang. Thoughts?



-Dharma

 

[Ice Cold]

Jerk off and find something else to do. Stop thinking about it. Next thing you know, you're gonna have rescue scenarios in your head.

Cheers