Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Too Picky?

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Its been a while since I've posted so let me provide ya'll with some background info

-Graduating senior
-Apart of Fraternity
-Popular at my school
-yadda yadda yadda

Anyways was in a relationship, relationship didn't work out, in the few months we've been broken up I've banged 5 chicks...whats the problem you ask? Lately I've been extra picky...like I be messin with some good lookin chicks, but I always find somethin about em physically to make me not wanna pursue em on a further level..

One girl has a bangin body, but her voice annoys me
One girl is real cute, but her feet ain't on point
One girl has some big ol titties! but she breathes like a fat person
One girl thick as hell, but yea her feet ain't on point either
Last girl i banged is built like a model, which is the problem, lol she's too tall

Is this just a shallow hal thing I got goin or does it have something to do with my ex, who's been looking fat as of lately by the way lol, I mean is it ok to be this picky or what? DON JUANS HELP ME OUT!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's okay to be picky. Don't be too self-conscious about it. Know that you might be breaking a few hearts and burning a few bridges though.

Most Don Juans will laud you for "not settling for anything less", but just be sure you don't make any girls go suicidal.
 
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That MIGHT be it...but ok thats a lost cause if I'm doin it like that because my ex is hispanic and I've been messin wit all black girls...and yea I mean how do I get over that if thats the case of trying to find a clone of my ex
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That MIGHT be it...but ok thats a lost cause if I'm doin it like that because my ex is hispanic and I've been messin wit all black girls...and yea I mean how do I get over that if thats the case of trying to find a clone of my ex
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When then you need a light skinned black girl with long straight weave..:D
 
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lol! i hate weave!!!!! I don't know what the solution is honestly
 
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If you just got out of a relationship, why are you trying to get into another? Too scared of being alone? lol

Just date and hang with your boys. Forget all of that crap! Have fun, and when you're not looking, she'll come to you. That's what they want - someone that's not looking for them.
 
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It could also be that you're just not very into any of these new girls on a personal level. It seems to me that some of these physical hang-ups that you have with these girls wouldn't be such a big deal if you were just more attracted by their personality.

I've never dated a 10, and I could tell you physical imperfections about every girl I've been with - but in each case there was something else about them that made them worth keeping around.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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