"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too Picky?

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Its been a while since I've posted so let me provide ya'll with some background info

-Graduating senior
-Apart of Fraternity
-Popular at my school
-yadda yadda yadda

Anyways was in a relationship, relationship didn't work out, in the few months we've been broken up I've banged 5 chicks...whats the problem you ask? Lately I've been extra picky...like I be messin with some good lookin chicks, but I always find somethin about em physically to make me not wanna pursue em on a further level..

One girl has a bangin body, but her voice annoys me
One girl is real cute, but her feet ain't on point
One girl has some big ol titties! but she breathes like a fat person
One girl thick as hell, but yea her feet ain't on point either
Last girl i banged is built like a model, which is the problem, lol she's too tall

Is this just a shallow hal thing I got goin or does it have something to do with my ex, who's been looking fat as of lately by the way lol, I mean is it ok to be this picky or what? DON JUANS HELP ME OUT!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's okay to be picky. Don't be too self-conscious about it. Know that you might be breaking a few hearts and burning a few bridges though.

Most Don Juans will laud you for "not settling for anything less", but just be sure you don't make any girls go suicidal.
 

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That MIGHT be it...but ok thats a lost cause if I'm doin it like that because my ex is hispanic and I've been messin wit all black girls...and yea I mean how do I get over that if thats the case of trying to find a clone of my ex
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonGorgon

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Sincere said:
That MIGHT be it...but ok thats a lost cause if I'm doin it like that because my ex is hispanic and I've been messin wit all black girls...and yea I mean how do I get over that if thats the case of trying to find a clone of my ex
When then you need a light skinned black girl with long straight weave..:D
 

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lol! i hate weave!!!!! I don't know what the solution is honestly
 

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If you just got out of a relationship, why are you trying to get into another? Too scared of being alone? lol

Just date and hang with your boys. Forget all of that crap! Have fun, and when you're not looking, she'll come to you. That's what they want - someone that's not looking for them.
 

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It could also be that you're just not very into any of these new girls on a personal level. It seems to me that some of these physical hang-ups that you have with these girls wouldn't be such a big deal if you were just more attracted by their personality.

I've never dated a 10, and I could tell you physical imperfections about every girl I've been with - but in each case there was something else about them that made them worth keeping around.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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