"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Too Picky?

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Its been a while since I've posted so let me provide ya'll with some background info

-Graduating senior
-Apart of Fraternity
-Popular at my school
-yadda yadda yadda

Anyways was in a relationship, relationship didn't work out, in the few months we've been broken up I've banged 5 chicks...whats the problem you ask? Lately I've been extra picky...like I be messin with some good lookin chicks, but I always find somethin about em physically to make me not wanna pursue em on a further level..

One girl has a bangin body, but her voice annoys me
One girl is real cute, but her feet ain't on point
One girl has some big ol titties! but she breathes like a fat person
One girl thick as hell, but yea her feet ain't on point either
Last girl i banged is built like a model, which is the problem, lol she's too tall

Is this just a shallow hal thing I got goin or does it have something to do with my ex, who's been looking fat as of lately by the way lol, I mean is it ok to be this picky or what? DON JUANS HELP ME OUT!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's okay to be picky. Don't be too self-conscious about it. Know that you might be breaking a few hearts and burning a few bridges though.

Most Don Juans will laud you for "not settling for anything less", but just be sure you don't make any girls go suicidal.
 
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That MIGHT be it...but ok thats a lost cause if I'm doin it like that because my ex is hispanic and I've been messin wit all black girls...and yea I mean how do I get over that if thats the case of trying to find a clone of my ex
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That MIGHT be it...but ok thats a lost cause if I'm doin it like that because my ex is hispanic and I've been messin wit all black girls...and yea I mean how do I get over that if thats the case of trying to find a clone of my ex
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When then you need a light skinned black girl with long straight weave..:D
 
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lol! i hate weave!!!!! I don't know what the solution is honestly
 
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If you just got out of a relationship, why are you trying to get into another? Too scared of being alone? lol

Just date and hang with your boys. Forget all of that crap! Have fun, and when you're not looking, she'll come to you. That's what they want - someone that's not looking for them.
 
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It could also be that you're just not very into any of these new girls on a personal level. It seems to me that some of these physical hang-ups that you have with these girls wouldn't be such a big deal if you were just more attracted by their personality.

I've never dated a 10, and I could tell you physical imperfections about every girl I've been with - but in each case there was something else about them that made them worth keeping around.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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