Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
See, this is a tough statement. Yes, I agree, no p*ssy in the world worth the trouble that most of them put a guy through to get it. However, how do you stop your d*ck from telling you what to do? When it's been awhile man, I think I would walk over burning coals if there was a hot piece of *ss on the other side waiting to give it up and do whatever I wanted.Too much value is being put on women by guys. I see this too often in real life, even on here.
This only leads to disappointment and anger when the unrealistic expectations are not met by said person
cough, orbiters, coughToo much value is being put on women by guys. I see this too often in real life, even on here.
This only leads to disappointment and anger when the unrealistic expectations are not met by said person
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Finding a Woman of value anymore is possible. Just like it’s possible for me to drop of marble off of a boat in the middle of the ocean and for you to find it. It’s possible. Now what are the odds of success in both said situations? Yep, exactly.There are woman out here of value. Not a ton but they are there.
All joking aside from my earlier posts, I have a real good woman been dating her a while now,I actually couldn't ask for anything better and we have lots and lots of fun...I dont believe that. To say all women in the market are low value is insane.
If your experiences havent been good raise your standards a bit.
Or raise your own quality and thinking (if lacking) to mirror said woman.I dont believe that. To say all women in the market are low value is insane.
If your experiences havent been good raise your standards a bit.
I thought so too. I wasn't as pessimistic as you, but there are women out there that are worth your time.Finding a Woman of value anymore is possible. Just like it’s possible for me to drop of marble off of a boat in the middle of the ocean and for you to find it. It’s possible. Now what are the odds of success in both said situations? Yep, exactly.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.