"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Too much value

Epicurus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 20, 2017
Messages
230
Reaction score
253
Too much value is being put on women by guys. I see this too often in real life, even on here.

This only leads to disappointment and anger when the unrealistic expectations are not met by said person
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

lizardking82

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 8, 2016
Messages
1,884
Reaction score
1,546
Absolutely agree. Most guys here are not busy enough in their lives and that is why they wanna make something the center of it, but making women that is a big mistake, in my opinion. They should be complementary when guys are young, just an added satisfaction, a natural desire fulfilled. Not the focus.
 

highSpeed

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2011
Messages
1,022
Reaction score
896
Too much value is being put on women by guys. I see this too often in real life, even on here.

This only leads to disappointment and anger when the unrealistic expectations are not met by said person
See, this is a tough statement. Yes, I agree, no p*ssy in the world worth the trouble that most of them put a guy through to get it. However, how do you stop your d*ck from telling you what to do? When it's been awhile man, I think I would walk over burning coals if there was a hot piece of *ss on the other side waiting to give it up and do whatever I wanted.
 

Red Legg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2016
Messages
904
Reaction score
737
Location
USA
IMO God should come first or your spiritual life followed by self improvement then family then your country (God bless the USA) then relationships with women.
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
Too much value is being put on women by guys. I see this too often in real life, even on here.

This only leads to disappointment and anger when the unrealistic expectations are not met by said person
cough, orbiters, cough

When women are the focus, we LOSE power. It's a vicious cycle, and also why I have NO COMPETITION!:p
 
Last edited:

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

logicallefty

Moderator
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
6,000
Reaction score
5,151
Age
52
Location
Northeast Florida, USA
There are woman out here of value. Not a ton but they are there.
Finding a Woman of value anymore is possible. Just like it’s possible for me to drop of marble off of a boat in the middle of the ocean and for you to find it. It’s possible. Now what are the odds of success in both said situations? Yep, exactly.
 

Epicurus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 20, 2017
Messages
230
Reaction score
253
I know a lot of good women, many of my childhood friends have been with their boyfriends since HS and treat them like Kings and not just me assuming I know this. My ex was a good woman, I’ve experienced and encountered many good women. Just turns out I’m not looking for a good woman atm
 

Red Legg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2016
Messages
904
Reaction score
737
Location
USA
I dont believe that. To say all women in the market are low value is insane.
If your experiences havent been good raise your standards a bit.
All joking aside from my earlier posts, I have a real good woman been dating her a while now,I actually couldn't ask for anything better and we have lots and lots of fun...
 

guru1000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2007
Messages
5,299
Reaction score
4,338
I dont believe that. To say all women in the market are low value is insane.
If your experiences havent been good raise your standards a bit.
Or raise your own quality and thinking (if lacking) to mirror said woman.

Simple choice of words gentlemen:

Most (not all) women aren’t worth getting into an LTR with.

You’d be surprised how such a simple change of words can have a dramatic effect upon your attitude in dealings with women.
 

Jetleg

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2014
Messages
317
Reaction score
212
Finding a Woman of value anymore is possible. Just like it’s possible for me to drop of marble off of a boat in the middle of the ocean and for you to find it. It’s possible. Now what are the odds of success in both said situations? Yep, exactly.
I thought so too. I wasn't as pessimistic as you, but there are women out there that are worth your time.

Im very happy with my current GF. Besides the sex (that is the easiest part to get from women) she cooks, cleans, helps me out with everything i need. She never forgets to make me coffe and breakfast every time she sleeps here.

Could i live without her? Sure. but as long as im having fun, im staying.

Go for east european chicks (like my gf) they are more mentally stable and less materialistic and dont have attitude. My gf will never even try to argue with me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top