You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
See, this is a tough statement. Yes, I agree, no p*ssy in the world worth the trouble that most of them put a guy through to get it. However, how do you stop your d*ck from telling you what to do? When it's been awhile man, I think I would walk over burning coals if there was a hot piece of *ss on the other side waiting to give it up and do whatever I wanted.Too much value is being put on women by guys. I see this too often in real life, even on here.
This only leads to disappointment and anger when the unrealistic expectations are not met by said person
cough, orbiters, coughToo much value is being put on women by guys. I see this too often in real life, even on here.
This only leads to disappointment and anger when the unrealistic expectations are not met by said person
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Finding a Woman of value anymore is possible. Just like it’s possible for me to drop of marble off of a boat in the middle of the ocean and for you to find it. It’s possible. Now what are the odds of success in both said situations? Yep, exactly.There are woman out here of value. Not a ton but they are there.
All joking aside from my earlier posts, I have a real good woman been dating her a while now,I actually couldn't ask for anything better and we have lots and lots of fun...I dont believe that. To say all women in the market are low value is insane.
If your experiences havent been good raise your standards a bit.
Or raise your own quality and thinking (if lacking) to mirror said woman.I dont believe that. To say all women in the market are low value is insane.
If your experiences havent been good raise your standards a bit.
I thought so too. I wasn't as pessimistic as you, but there are women out there that are worth your time.Finding a Woman of value anymore is possible. Just like it’s possible for me to drop of marble off of a boat in the middle of the ocean and for you to find it. It’s possible. Now what are the odds of success in both said situations? Yep, exactly.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.