theSpeculator
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Does anyone feel the more time spent at sosuave, the more the afc post rubs off on you?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Too much sosuave is bad
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spitkicker
Don Juan
The more time spent on the internet, the less time spent in the real world.
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Tha Realnezz
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Yeah you have to leave the site periodically ...it gets depressive.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
Walking Anomaly
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Yeah I agree with you on this one...Just take chances.
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
This site is becoming very very very AFC, have you seen the last posts?
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Senior Don Juan
if you dont like complaining, go to the mature man or tips or archieve section of the Forum. You cant blame people for needing help, as long as you learn from your mistakes then its ok to ask for help.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are you serious?!
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I only go on here when im at work. I go out in my free time.
MightyMate
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I like giving tips to lost souls!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
As informative as they are, all the posts about bad women in general and sane women with their stupid little games make women seem like more trouble than they're worth.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
I_Only_Live_Once
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Yes sosuave can be bad for you.
Ace of Flames
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its your own damn fault if you stay here too much. u cant blame the losers that post for help all the time, or the "fake dj's", or the lack of truely great tips. take responsibility for your own lack of or decline in your game, and get your sorry ass out there!
dentalfloss
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when i first started reading this site a couple years ago, it actually helped...now its just full of sh!t...but i guess that is what it is to become a DJ, to understand that you don't need this site anymore once you understand how the game works
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
theSpeculator
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I come here when I have some free time to kill. It usually to see what's going on with everyone and to see if I can give some advice here or there. But lately I've been thinking why brother? It seems most of the AFCs here can't see a good tips when they see it. They rather here the advice given by other AFCs