theSpeculator
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Does anyone feel the more time spent at sosuave, the more the afc post rubs off on you?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Too much sosuave is bad
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
spitkicker
Don Juan
The more time spent on the internet, the less time spent in the real world.
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Tha Realnezz
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Yeah you have to leave the site periodically ...it gets depressive.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
Walking Anomaly
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Yeah I agree with you on this one...Just take chances.
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
This site is becoming very very very AFC, have you seen the last posts?
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Senior Don Juan
if you dont like complaining, go to the mature man or tips or archieve section of the Forum. You cant blame people for needing help, as long as you learn from your mistakes then its ok to ask for help.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are you serious?!
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I only go on here when im at work. I go out in my free time.
MightyMate
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I like giving tips to lost souls!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
As informative as they are, all the posts about bad women in general and sane women with their stupid little games make women seem like more trouble than they're worth.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
I_Only_Live_Once
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Yes sosuave can be bad for you.
Ace of Flames
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its your own damn fault if you stay here too much. u cant blame the losers that post for help all the time, or the "fake dj's", or the lack of truely great tips. take responsibility for your own lack of or decline in your game, and get your sorry ass out there!
dentalfloss
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when i first started reading this site a couple years ago, it actually helped...now its just full of sh!t...but i guess that is what it is to become a DJ, to understand that you don't need this site anymore once you understand how the game works
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
theSpeculator
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I come here when I have some free time to kill. It usually to see what's going on with everyone and to see if I can give some advice here or there. But lately I've been thinking why brother? It seems most of the AFCs here can't see a good tips when they see it. They rather here the advice given by other AFCs