theSpeculator
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Does anyone feel the more time spent at sosuave, the more the afc post rubs off on you?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Too much sosuave is bad
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spitkicker
Don Juan
The more time spent on the internet, the less time spent in the real world.
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Tha Realnezz
Master Don Juan
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Yeah you have to leave the site periodically ...it gets depressive.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
Walking Anomaly
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Yeah I agree with you on this one...Just take chances.
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
This site is becoming very very very AFC, have you seen the last posts?
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
[]D [] []V[] []D
Senior Don Juan
if you dont like complaining, go to the mature man or tips or archieve section of the Forum. You cant blame people for needing help, as long as you learn from your mistakes then its ok to ask for help.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are you serious?!
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I only go on here when im at work. I go out in my free time.
MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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I like giving tips to lost souls!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
As informative as they are, all the posts about bad women in general and sane women with their stupid little games make women seem like more trouble than they're worth.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
I_Only_Live_Once
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Yes sosuave can be bad for you.
Ace of Flames
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its your own damn fault if you stay here too much. u cant blame the losers that post for help all the time, or the "fake dj's", or the lack of truely great tips. take responsibility for your own lack of or decline in your game, and get your sorry ass out there!
dentalfloss
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when i first started reading this site a couple years ago, it actually helped...now its just full of sh!t...but i guess that is what it is to become a DJ, to understand that you don't need this site anymore once you understand how the game works
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
theSpeculator
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I come here when I have some free time to kill. It usually to see what's going on with everyone and to see if I can give some advice here or there. But lately I've been thinking why brother? It seems most of the AFCs here can't see a good tips when they see it. They rather here the advice given by other AFCs