theSpeculator
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Does anyone feel the more time spent at sosuave, the more the afc post rubs off on you?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Too much sosuave is bad
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
spitkicker
Don Juan
The more time spent on the internet, the less time spent in the real world.
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Think about if you spent every hour you spent on the internet.... in the real world - taking chances.
Think about all the women, memories, moments, friends...
Tha Realnezz
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Yeah you have to leave the site periodically ...it gets depressive.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
It's just too much crap here that doesn't have to do with anything.Guys lieing to rookies and the like knowing damn well they don't know what they're talking about.
And when you question them they get all hysterical ..lol.
In one posts the guys here are DJ's and the next they need "help..please!! ACSAaASCSPpp'...smh.
Walking Anomaly
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Yeah I agree with you on this one...Just take chances.
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
I try to do that as best I can
Peace
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
This site is becoming very very very AFC, have you seen the last posts?
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
I'm just imagining a bunch of nerdy guys sitting behind their computers giving terrible advice about getting horny over video game characters and the key to getting Asian girls.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Senior Don Juan
if you dont like complaining, go to the mature man or tips or archieve section of the Forum. You cant blame people for needing help, as long as you learn from your mistakes then its ok to ask for help.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are you serious?!
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I only go on here when im at work. I go out in my free time.
MightyMate
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I like giving tips to lost souls!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
As informative as they are, all the posts about bad women in general and sane women with their stupid little games make women seem like more trouble than they're worth.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
Before I came here, I just dismissed women as being for better men than I. Now, even though I know that anyone can get women, I'm forced to question if I care enough to jump through all those hoops and wade through all that sh!t ...
... not to mention contort myself into the masculine ideal so that I'll actually be given the opportunity to jump through hoops and wade through sh!t.
I_Only_Live_Once
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Yes sosuave can be bad for you.
Ace of Flames
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its your own damn fault if you stay here too much. u cant blame the losers that post for help all the time, or the "fake dj's", or the lack of truely great tips. take responsibility for your own lack of or decline in your game, and get your sorry ass out there!
dentalfloss
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when i first started reading this site a couple years ago, it actually helped...now its just full of sh!t...but i guess that is what it is to become a DJ, to understand that you don't need this site anymore once you understand how the game works
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
theSpeculator
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I come here when I have some free time to kill. It usually to see what's going on with everyone and to see if I can give some advice here or there. But lately I've been thinking why brother? It seems most of the AFCs here can't see a good tips when they see it. They rather here the advice given by other AFCs