Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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too much selfishness is my problem? you?

dynamicallyidle

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My problem is that I'm too selfish. Really. I'm one of the most selfish people you will ever meet. I don't usually talk to or approach girls for one reason...I don't really give a **** what they do. I am not interested in their personality. I am not really interested in what they do with their life. Ultimately, I just want to bone them.

I'm a jerk who's trying to be a nice guy. But deep down inside, I'm a jerk. I've made fun of everyone ever since I was little: my father, my brother, my mother, my friends. I think I'm a jerk.

Hm.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tr0ublemaker

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seems like you're a outsider looking in, but you enjoy the view

you've probably never come across any girls that you find truly interesting..

my problem is kind of the same..im really starting to hate girls because they are so boring, but i still want to bone them..
 

blinkwatt

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My problem is I don't like sluts....That only leaves me with about 5% of women to choose from,from that 5% they have be good at least cute,that leaves me with 1% of women to choose from.
 

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If you are a a jerk by nature, try to be nice; same goes vice versa: its a search for harmony that will double the amount of azz you get.
 

LegendBoy

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Blinkwatt that is EXACTLY the situation I am in. This year I have only found 3 chicks that fit that category. Two actually do fit into my category the first wasn't what I thought.

I swear the nerdy chicks are good, because they don't get called to parties and usually when you talk to them they aren't really that "wierd". Some can be okay lookings too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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