"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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too much selfishness is my problem? you?

dynamicallyidle

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My problem is that I'm too selfish. Really. I'm one of the most selfish people you will ever meet. I don't usually talk to or approach girls for one reason...I don't really give a **** what they do. I am not interested in their personality. I am not really interested in what they do with their life. Ultimately, I just want to bone them.

I'm a jerk who's trying to be a nice guy. But deep down inside, I'm a jerk. I've made fun of everyone ever since I was little: my father, my brother, my mother, my friends. I think I'm a jerk.

Hm.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tr0ublemaker

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seems like you're a outsider looking in, but you enjoy the view

you've probably never come across any girls that you find truly interesting..

my problem is kind of the same..im really starting to hate girls because they are so boring, but i still want to bone them..
 

blinkwatt

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My problem is I don't like sluts....That only leaves me with about 5% of women to choose from,from that 5% they have be good at least cute,that leaves me with 1% of women to choose from.
 

calimartin

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If you are a a jerk by nature, try to be nice; same goes vice versa: its a search for harmony that will double the amount of azz you get.
 

LegendBoy

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Blinkwatt that is EXACTLY the situation I am in. This year I have only found 3 chicks that fit that category. Two actually do fit into my category the first wasn't what I thought.

I swear the nerdy chicks are good, because they don't get called to parties and usually when you talk to them they aren't really that "wierd". Some can be okay lookings too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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