"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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too much selfishness is my problem? you?

dynamicallyidle

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My problem is that I'm too selfish. Really. I'm one of the most selfish people you will ever meet. I don't usually talk to or approach girls for one reason...I don't really give a **** what they do. I am not interested in their personality. I am not really interested in what they do with their life. Ultimately, I just want to bone them.

I'm a jerk who's trying to be a nice guy. But deep down inside, I'm a jerk. I've made fun of everyone ever since I was little: my father, my brother, my mother, my friends. I think I'm a jerk.

Hm.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tr0ublemaker

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seems like you're a outsider looking in, but you enjoy the view

you've probably never come across any girls that you find truly interesting..

my problem is kind of the same..im really starting to hate girls because they are so boring, but i still want to bone them..
 

blinkwatt

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My problem is I don't like sluts....That only leaves me with about 5% of women to choose from,from that 5% they have be good at least cute,that leaves me with 1% of women to choose from.
 

calimartin

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If you are a a jerk by nature, try to be nice; same goes vice versa: its a search for harmony that will double the amount of azz you get.
 

LegendBoy

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Blinkwatt that is EXACTLY the situation I am in. This year I have only found 3 chicks that fit that category. Two actually do fit into my category the first wasn't what I thought.

I swear the nerdy chicks are good, because they don't get called to parties and usually when you talk to them they aren't really that "wierd". Some can be okay lookings too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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