"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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too much selfishness is my problem? you?

dynamicallyidle

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My problem is that I'm too selfish. Really. I'm one of the most selfish people you will ever meet. I don't usually talk to or approach girls for one reason...I don't really give a **** what they do. I am not interested in their personality. I am not really interested in what they do with their life. Ultimately, I just want to bone them.

I'm a jerk who's trying to be a nice guy. But deep down inside, I'm a jerk. I've made fun of everyone ever since I was little: my father, my brother, my mother, my friends. I think I'm a jerk.

Hm.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tr0ublemaker

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seems like you're a outsider looking in, but you enjoy the view

you've probably never come across any girls that you find truly interesting..

my problem is kind of the same..im really starting to hate girls because they are so boring, but i still want to bone them..
 

blinkwatt

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My problem is I don't like sluts....That only leaves me with about 5% of women to choose from,from that 5% they have be good at least cute,that leaves me with 1% of women to choose from.
 

calimartin

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If you are a a jerk by nature, try to be nice; same goes vice versa: its a search for harmony that will double the amount of azz you get.
 

LegendBoy

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Blinkwatt that is EXACTLY the situation I am in. This year I have only found 3 chicks that fit that category. Two actually do fit into my category the first wasn't what I thought.

I swear the nerdy chicks are good, because they don't get called to parties and usually when you talk to them they aren't really that "wierd". Some can be okay lookings too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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