CobaltBlue
Don Juan
^^Agreed LuckyStrike.
Sounds like y'all need a new forum
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Sounds like y'all need a new forum
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Damn, I'm becoming your apprentice, turned to the light side, I have.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Don Juanabbe - I told you before to change your name to "Don Juan Is" (you are not a wannabe anymore) .
I thought I wrote the above post until I saw your name on it.
I'll let you handle these boys on this thread - you're doing a good job!!! Speak truth and tell it like it is!!!!
Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
LOL! This thread is hilarious!
To me the whole DJ philosophy is about yourself, not about other people. I merely have to become that which I dream of becoming and be content in that.
Women can be whatever they want to be and I can paddle in that stream whenever I want to but I cannot change the nature of the stream. It doesn't matter. Everything involved in fulfillment comes back to the improvement of self...
"Be the change you wish to see in the world"
*assumes lotus position*
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't buy that. It's quite the opposite in my experience. It's precisely the fact that I have, and am still able to get with, any number of women that I have formulated my low opinion of the vast majority of N. American women.Originally posted by Visceral
You may notice that it's only unmasculine AFCs who form such negative opinions of women due to sexual frustration.
The guy who gets laid whenever he wants because he has the balls to do as he pleases undoubtedly thinks women are among the greatest things in the world - after himself and his own goals, of course - since they hate his guts, but will still do anything for him
Passive men need active women ... that's where *****s came from.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That site is f*cked up. That girl must have one pretty damn big ego. Most of the entries are "girl you're so hot" etc. Please!Originally posted by Jake-inator
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=2415420&Mytoken=20050525104406
This girl is not only a wh0re but a hypocrit.
I suggest you lads from europe check this profile out.
Notice the pathetic "pimp" wannabes that signed her profile with compliments.
Also read her bull**** on being original.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
There was no need for that. Why show such disrespect?Originally posted by Jake-inator
I've figured it out... it appears that:
Mr. Style is no other than..... Dr. Phil (Oprah's b|tch) :flowers:
Jus_LikeCandy, his overlord and master is..... Oprah :cheer:
They've infiltrated our forum and are now attempting to undermine the DJ cause with their Politically Correct rhetoric.
I for one, am not giving up without a fight... :trouble:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.