CobaltBlue
Don Juan
^^Agreed LuckyStrike.
Sounds like y'all need a new forum
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Sounds like y'all need a new forum
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Damn, I'm becoming your apprentice, turned to the light side, I have.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Don Juanabbe - I told you before to change your name to "Don Juan Is" (you are not a wannabe anymore) .
I thought I wrote the above post until I saw your name on it.
I'll let you handle these boys on this thread - you're doing a good job!!! Speak truth and tell it like it is!!!!
Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
LOL! This thread is hilarious!
To me the whole DJ philosophy is about yourself, not about other people. I merely have to become that which I dream of becoming and be content in that.
Women can be whatever they want to be and I can paddle in that stream whenever I want to but I cannot change the nature of the stream. It doesn't matter. Everything involved in fulfillment comes back to the improvement of self...
"Be the change you wish to see in the world"
*assumes lotus position*
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't buy that. It's quite the opposite in my experience. It's precisely the fact that I have, and am still able to get with, any number of women that I have formulated my low opinion of the vast majority of N. American women.Originally posted by Visceral
You may notice that it's only unmasculine AFCs who form such negative opinions of women due to sexual frustration.
The guy who gets laid whenever he wants because he has the balls to do as he pleases undoubtedly thinks women are among the greatest things in the world - after himself and his own goals, of course - since they hate his guts, but will still do anything for him
Passive men need active women ... that's where *****s came from.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That site is f*cked up. That girl must have one pretty damn big ego. Most of the entries are "girl you're so hot" etc. Please!Originally posted by Jake-inator
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=2415420&Mytoken=20050525104406
This girl is not only a wh0re but a hypocrit.
I suggest you lads from europe check this profile out.
Notice the pathetic "pimp" wannabes that signed her profile with compliments.
Also read her bull**** on being original.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
There was no need for that. Why show such disrespect?Originally posted by Jake-inator
I've figured it out... it appears that:
Mr. Style is no other than..... Dr. Phil (Oprah's b|tch) :flowers:
Jus_LikeCandy, his overlord and master is..... Oprah :cheer:
They've infiltrated our forum and are now attempting to undermine the DJ cause with their Politically Correct rhetoric.
I for one, am not giving up without a fight... :trouble:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.