CobaltBlue
Don Juan
^^Agreed LuckyStrike.
Sounds like y'all need a new forum
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Sounds like y'all need a new forum
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Damn, I'm becoming your apprentice, turned to the light side, I have.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Don Juanabbe - I told you before to change your name to "Don Juan Is" (you are not a wannabe anymore) .
I thought I wrote the above post until I saw your name on it.
I'll let you handle these boys on this thread - you're doing a good job!!! Speak truth and tell it like it is!!!!
Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
LOL! This thread is hilarious!
To me the whole DJ philosophy is about yourself, not about other people. I merely have to become that which I dream of becoming and be content in that.
Women can be whatever they want to be and I can paddle in that stream whenever I want to but I cannot change the nature of the stream. It doesn't matter. Everything involved in fulfillment comes back to the improvement of self...
"Be the change you wish to see in the world"
*assumes lotus position*
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't buy that. It's quite the opposite in my experience. It's precisely the fact that I have, and am still able to get with, any number of women that I have formulated my low opinion of the vast majority of N. American women.Originally posted by Visceral
You may notice that it's only unmasculine AFCs who form such negative opinions of women due to sexual frustration.
The guy who gets laid whenever he wants because he has the balls to do as he pleases undoubtedly thinks women are among the greatest things in the world - after himself and his own goals, of course - since they hate his guts, but will still do anything for him
Passive men need active women ... that's where *****s came from.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That site is f*cked up. That girl must have one pretty damn big ego. Most of the entries are "girl you're so hot" etc. Please!Originally posted by Jake-inator
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=2415420&Mytoken=20050525104406
This girl is not only a wh0re but a hypocrit.
I suggest you lads from europe check this profile out.
Notice the pathetic "pimp" wannabes that signed her profile with compliments.
Also read her bull**** on being original.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There was no need for that. Why show such disrespect?Originally posted by Jake-inator
I've figured it out... it appears that:
Mr. Style is no other than..... Dr. Phil (Oprah's b|tch) :flowers:
Jus_LikeCandy, his overlord and master is..... Oprah :cheer:
They've infiltrated our forum and are now attempting to undermine the DJ cause with their Politically Correct rhetoric.
I for one, am not giving up without a fight... :trouble:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.