"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

too many plates?

cola

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 26, 2009
Messages
2,224
Reaction score
3,002
Location
Baltimore
Ok so about 2 weeks ago I broke up a ltr of 3 years.
Ive been talking tobgirls left and righ since. ..
Girls on facebook, cold approaches, a few chicks at work that have had high interest levels I couldn't deal with because of ltrs etc etc..

So im now talking to about 8 girls..
Ok great right? Here is the dillema

I work at a job with unlimited ot almost..
So by choice, because I like nice things im working 60-65 hours a week.
And trying to hit gym to lose some ltr fat..and I like atleast one night a week to go sarging at bara/clubs
And I love ps3.

All things concidered I have time for about one date a week..
So what do I do?
Drop 4-5 plates and try to keep a 2-3 girl rotation or can I make chicks wait 8 weeks for the next date?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

cola

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 26, 2009
Messages
2,224
Reaction score
3,002
Location
Baltimore
Oh yeah I have some sick dates.. I mean I work the ot and have a few bucks to blow .. so my dates are pretty ****ing better than they are use to.. I mean bus trips to atlantic city, out of state sporting events ..
I mean when I do dates my goal is to make the other dudes they talk to look ****ing boring..
 

Fly By Night

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2012
Messages
517
Reaction score
11
Way to brag >:l

Lol, just playin' man. I'm sure you can spread them out to meet up once every two weeks. Don't feel obligated to take them out every week. Are you saying you only have the time to take out 1 girl a week?
 

cola

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 26, 2009
Messages
2,224
Reaction score
3,002
Location
Baltimore
Yeah realistically.. one good date a week .. a date with me is a all day affair
 

Borknagar

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2001
Messages
581
Reaction score
131
Age
47
Location
Minnesota
It's not too many plates until you have 5 of the same name, but even then, be a player women are LOL
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Fly By Night

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2012
Messages
517
Reaction score
11
cola said:
Yeah realistically.. one good date a week .. a date with me is a all day affair
I've never taken the whole day to date a girl. I would say to shorten up dates to make way for other plates, but f**k, you're getting more dates than me so I doubt I'm giving you the best answer. You got options, time to choose the girl that you're most interested in. :)
 
Top