"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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too many plates?

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Ok so about 2 weeks ago I broke up a ltr of 3 years.
Ive been talking tobgirls left and righ since. ..
Girls on facebook, cold approaches, a few chicks at work that have had high interest levels I couldn't deal with because of ltrs etc etc..

So im now talking to about 8 girls..
Ok great right? Here is the dillema

I work at a job with unlimited ot almost..
So by choice, because I like nice things im working 60-65 hours a week.
And trying to hit gym to lose some ltr fat..and I like atleast one night a week to go sarging at bara/clubs
And I love ps3.

All things concidered I have time for about one date a week..
So what do I do?
Drop 4-5 plates and try to keep a 2-3 girl rotation or can I make chicks wait 8 weeks for the next date?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cola

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Oh yeah I have some sick dates.. I mean I work the ot and have a few bucks to blow .. so my dates are pretty ****ing better than they are use to.. I mean bus trips to atlantic city, out of state sporting events ..
I mean when I do dates my goal is to make the other dudes they talk to look ****ing boring..
 

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Way to brag >:l

Lol, just playin' man. I'm sure you can spread them out to meet up once every two weeks. Don't feel obligated to take them out every week. Are you saying you only have the time to take out 1 girl a week?
 

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Yeah realistically.. one good date a week .. a date with me is a all day affair
 

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It's not too many plates until you have 5 of the same name, but even then, be a player women are LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fly By Night

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cola said:
Yeah realistically.. one good date a week .. a date with me is a all day affair
I've never taken the whole day to date a girl. I would say to shorten up dates to make way for other plates, but f**k, you're getting more dates than me so I doubt I'm giving you the best answer. You got options, time to choose the girl that you're most interested in. :)
 
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