"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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too many plates?

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Ok so about 2 weeks ago I broke up a ltr of 3 years.
Ive been talking tobgirls left and righ since. ..
Girls on facebook, cold approaches, a few chicks at work that have had high interest levels I couldn't deal with because of ltrs etc etc..

So im now talking to about 8 girls..
Ok great right? Here is the dillema

I work at a job with unlimited ot almost..
So by choice, because I like nice things im working 60-65 hours a week.
And trying to hit gym to lose some ltr fat..and I like atleast one night a week to go sarging at bara/clubs
And I love ps3.

All things concidered I have time for about one date a week..
So what do I do?
Drop 4-5 plates and try to keep a 2-3 girl rotation or can I make chicks wait 8 weeks for the next date?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cola

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Oh yeah I have some sick dates.. I mean I work the ot and have a few bucks to blow .. so my dates are pretty ****ing better than they are use to.. I mean bus trips to atlantic city, out of state sporting events ..
I mean when I do dates my goal is to make the other dudes they talk to look ****ing boring..
 

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Way to brag >:l

Lol, just playin' man. I'm sure you can spread them out to meet up once every two weeks. Don't feel obligated to take them out every week. Are you saying you only have the time to take out 1 girl a week?
 

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Yeah realistically.. one good date a week .. a date with me is a all day affair
 

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It's not too many plates until you have 5 of the same name, but even then, be a player women are LOL
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cola said:
Yeah realistically.. one good date a week .. a date with me is a all day affair
I've never taken the whole day to date a girl. I would say to shorten up dates to make way for other plates, but f**k, you're getting more dates than me so I doubt I'm giving you the best answer. You got options, time to choose the girl that you're most interested in. :)
 
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