"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tonality

jocca

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Hey guys just hoping someone maybe able to give me a few pointers on tonality or maybe some links as to good sites or downloads.

Its part of my improvement program (first was body language) any help would be greatly appreciated thanks in advance
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
 

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COD said:
1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
lol, i've recorded my voice before... i never realized how bad i sound!
 

jocca

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good stuff so far anyone else have any tips?
 

Flabbergasped?

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By the way, I think the word you're looking for is intonation, not tonality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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True (admittedly I had to look it up) but hopefully the word tonality is better recieved on this site anyway.
 
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