"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tonality

jocca

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Hey guys just hoping someone maybe able to give me a few pointers on tonality or maybe some links as to good sites or downloads.

Its part of my improvement program (first was body language) any help would be greatly appreciated thanks in advance
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
 

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COD said:
1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
lol, i've recorded my voice before... i never realized how bad i sound!
 

jocca

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good stuff so far anyone else have any tips?
 

Flabbergasped?

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By the way, I think the word you're looking for is intonation, not tonality.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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True (admittedly I had to look it up) but hopefully the word tonality is better recieved on this site anyway.
 
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