"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Tonality

jocca

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 7, 2007
Messages
189
Reaction score
3
Hey guys just hoping someone maybe able to give me a few pointers on tonality or maybe some links as to good sites or downloads.

Its part of my improvement program (first was body language) any help would be greatly appreciated thanks in advance
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
 

rain63

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2008
Messages
42
Reaction score
1
COD said:
1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
lol, i've recorded my voice before... i never realized how bad i sound!
 

jocca

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 7, 2007
Messages
189
Reaction score
3
good stuff so far anyone else have any tips?
 

Flabbergasped?

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 14, 2005
Messages
539
Reaction score
12
By the way, I think the word you're looking for is intonation, not tonality.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

jocca

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 7, 2007
Messages
189
Reaction score
3
True (admittedly I had to look it up) but hopefully the word tonality is better recieved on this site anyway.
 
Top