"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tonality

jocca

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Hey guys just hoping someone maybe able to give me a few pointers on tonality or maybe some links as to good sites or downloads.

Its part of my improvement program (first was body language) any help would be greatly appreciated thanks in advance
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
 

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COD said:
1) RECORD YOUR VOICE ON YOUR CELL PHONE OR COMPUTER THEN PLAY IT BACK to hear what you sound like to the rest of the world.

2) SLOW DOWN your rate of speech.

3) LOWER YOUR TONE, ENUNCIATE

4) dont't forget to pause every so often

5) PRACTICE INFRONT of a mirror

6) increase your vocabruary.........knowledge is power

7) smile yes smile when you speak

8) think before you speak......always have something clever to say

9) TWO EARS ONE MOUTH-listen twice as much as you speak, still waters run deep, less is more philosophy

10) laydown when talking on the phone......being in a relaxed mood = sexier tone
lol, i've recorded my voice before... i never realized how bad i sound!
 

jocca

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good stuff so far anyone else have any tips?
 

Flabbergasped?

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By the way, I think the word you're looking for is intonation, not tonality.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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True (admittedly I had to look it up) but hopefully the word tonality is better recieved on this site anyway.
 
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