"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tomorrow your exes are going to wish you merry Christmas, dont you bite

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These witches are going to wish you merry Christmas, just to see you bite,in the woman sick mind it's to see, believe it or not if you will respond and what else you will add to your message.


Flake on these witches, don't you respond,when you see her message, look at it,laugh,then delete the messege.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was just thinking about this. I was either not going to respond or reply with "Thanks" (rather than wishing her a merry Xmas too haha).
 
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Good reminder, Fatal Jay. You may have staved off some unecessary drama for some guys who would have teken the bait.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alpha_ash said:
Mine comes in the evening after dinner :D lolll! stupid predictable ***-guzzling *****es!
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I've got like 5 from the past year or two and most of them have moved on to new sausage. I don't talk to any of them. It's all about Miss Right Now for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SoSuave666 said:
My exes know better than to text me. Every last one...except BPD ex. Thisorning at 12:01 am:

"Heyy! This time of year always reminds me of u. and altho we dont talk nemore I couldnt think of a better time to break the silence then xmas. Hope ur well!"

All I could think of was how stupid that text was...what with all the spelling/grammatical errors and such. She will not be receiving a return text...and her number may have just weaseled its way into my permanent block list.
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Hahahaha! Legend.
 
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Who cares if your exces wish you a merry Christmas...

What do you send when a girl you recently met sends you a "merry christmas" text and do you send a christmas text to a religious girl you've been seeing but havent banged yet?
 
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sigma335 said:
Who cares if your exces wish you a merry Christmas...

What do you send when a girl you recently met sends you a "merry christmas" text and do you send a christmas text to a religious girl you've been seeing but havent banged yet?
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I would like to know this as well. I received my first "wish" from a recent flaky *****, but fairly high interested *****. How to respond?
 
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Sigma and Alpha:

If you guys have to wonder about whether or not you need to text back and how to text, I would err on the side of not responding at all. Someone who has good enough text game can always text back or text first. If you're in a place where you feel shy or uncomfortable texting back, just don't do it. Get back to her tomorrow or something. A "you too" text or something similar literally provides ZERO advantage to your situation(s).
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Good point. How should I get back tomorrow?

She doesn't celebrate Christmas but she said her twin sister is pretty religious. I was thinking I should say, "Thanks, Merry Christmas to your sister too."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fatal Jay said:
These witches are going to wish you merry Christmas, just to see you bite,in the woman sick mind it's to see, believe it or not if you will respond and what else you will add to your message.

Flake on these witches, don't you respond,when you see her message, look at it,laugh,then delete the messege.
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I don't see the big deal of responding to your ex when she says Merry Christmas. Think not responding shows you are bitter and angry at her for not choosing you.

You can always respond and sleep with hot girls at the same time.
 
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i have a ex whose bday is dec14th every year i send her an email saying happy bday. she has not responded the last two years i know she gets them i know she reads them one because i know her secondly we still keep in touch for business reasons, the thing is i do not care if she responds now is the first time i have given it any thought i do it because i think its a nice thing to do and im not a jerk what she does is what she does but she cant say i didnt keep her around because i was an insensitive jerk which is exactly why she does nog respond
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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