"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tomorrow your exes are going to wish you merry Christmas, dont you bite

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These witches are going to wish you merry Christmas, just to see you bite,in the woman sick mind it's to see, believe it or not if you will respond and what else you will add to your message.


Flake on these witches, don't you respond,when you see her message, look at it,laugh,then delete the messege.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Was just thinking about this. I was either not going to respond or reply with "Thanks" (rather than wishing her a merry Xmas too haha).
 
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Good reminder, Fatal Jay. You may have staved off some unecessary drama for some guys who would have teken the bait.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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alpha_ash said:
Mine comes in the evening after dinner :D lolll! stupid predictable ***-guzzling *****es!
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I've got like 5 from the past year or two and most of them have moved on to new sausage. I don't talk to any of them. It's all about Miss Right Now for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SoSuave666 said:
My exes know better than to text me. Every last one...except BPD ex. Thisorning at 12:01 am:

"Heyy! This time of year always reminds me of u. and altho we dont talk nemore I couldnt think of a better time to break the silence then xmas. Hope ur well!"

All I could think of was how stupid that text was...what with all the spelling/grammatical errors and such. She will not be receiving a return text...and her number may have just weaseled its way into my permanent block list.
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Hahahaha! Legend.
 
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Who cares if your exces wish you a merry Christmas...

What do you send when a girl you recently met sends you a "merry christmas" text and do you send a christmas text to a religious girl you've been seeing but havent banged yet?
 
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sigma335 said:
Who cares if your exces wish you a merry Christmas...

What do you send when a girl you recently met sends you a "merry christmas" text and do you send a christmas text to a religious girl you've been seeing but havent banged yet?
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I would like to know this as well. I received my first "wish" from a recent flaky *****, but fairly high interested *****. How to respond?
 
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Sigma and Alpha:

If you guys have to wonder about whether or not you need to text back and how to text, I would err on the side of not responding at all. Someone who has good enough text game can always text back or text first. If you're in a place where you feel shy or uncomfortable texting back, just don't do it. Get back to her tomorrow or something. A "you too" text or something similar literally provides ZERO advantage to your situation(s).
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Good point. How should I get back tomorrow?

She doesn't celebrate Christmas but she said her twin sister is pretty religious. I was thinking I should say, "Thanks, Merry Christmas to your sister too."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fatal Jay said:
These witches are going to wish you merry Christmas, just to see you bite,in the woman sick mind it's to see, believe it or not if you will respond and what else you will add to your message.

Flake on these witches, don't you respond,when you see her message, look at it,laugh,then delete the messege.
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I don't see the big deal of responding to your ex when she says Merry Christmas. Think not responding shows you are bitter and angry at her for not choosing you.

You can always respond and sleep with hot girls at the same time.
 
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i have a ex whose bday is dec14th every year i send her an email saying happy bday. she has not responded the last two years i know she gets them i know she reads them one because i know her secondly we still keep in touch for business reasons, the thing is i do not care if she responds now is the first time i have given it any thought i do it because i think its a nice thing to do and im not a jerk what she does is what she does but she cant say i didnt keep her around because i was an insensitive jerk which is exactly why she does nog respond
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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