"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tomorrow your exes are going to wish you merry Christmas, dont you bite

Zarky

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Whoops, yesterday I sent Happy Holidays texts/emails to all the exes I would still be willing to bang! Got a couple responses but no leads. LOL

Otherwise, I don't understand why folks don't stay friends with their exes. I always try to. Unless they strangled your cat or something heinous, why wouldn't you? I mean, you spend all that time getting to know someone and then when you break up suddenly you can never speak again? Seems kind of childish to me. We're all human.

I recently saw an ex I dated back in '08 on an internet site. Chatted her up, we're going out for coffee next week. It'll be nice to hear about what she's doing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JohnChops

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im in the same boat at Sosuave666 lol none of my ex s would even think about contacting me. Usually i make it clear that its done, bridge burning, becuase ex s should be ex s. Anyway, none contacted me as usual
 

Fatal Jay

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What's up with my rep points so suave

Fatal doesn't get any love, show me love and I will always show y'all love back

My exes always hit me up, cause I never really ended things bad with them, even if they piss me off I still don't end things badly

it's so funny when I see all these numbers not saved in my phone wishing me merry christmas lol
 
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