"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tom Ford's 3 Rules of Fragrance

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Now see? I have learned something I didn’t know. Sillage. What a great noun. Narcisse left quite a sillage. I got stopped constantly by men & women both wanting to know what fragrance I was wearing. Thanks @DonJuanjr

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I film those sort of videos for living. They are marketing horse****. Don't believe anything they say. It's written by a bunch of marketing guys who can't get laid then given to the man in charge to read from a script. He inputs his 2 cents, while listening to what needs to be said to sell more stuff. People don't climb the top of the industry ladder by being true to themselves and speaking truth.
 

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I got lucky with my skin type I guess. Jovan and ck1 smell great on me. Will try the creed knock-off just out of curiosity. I took my Mrs around for a sniff test. Chanel bleu got the tick
 

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I got lucky with my skin type I guess. Jovan and ck1 smell great on me. Will try the creed knock-off just out of curiosity. I took my Mrs around for a sniff test. Chanel bleu got the tick
Bleu de Chanel EDP is a compliment-getter, wherever you go. One of the most popular on the planet.

To anyone who doesn't mind spending $325 on a fragrance, Baccarat Rouge 540 by Maison Francis Kurkjian is a boss.

@BeExcellent your guy should check this out. They have it at Nordstrom and Saks. You'll be able to sample.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Now see? I have learned something I didn’t know. Sillage. What a great noun. Narcisse left quite a sillage. I got stopped constantly by men & women both wanting to know what fragrance I was wearing. Thanks @DonJuanjr

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Lol and just who is Narcisse?

I usually pick Adolf when I need a random name myself. We all have our quirks.
 
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I film those sort of videos for living. They are marketing horse****. Don't believe anything they say. It's written by a bunch of marketing guys who can't get laid then given to the man in charge to read from a script. He inputs his 2 cents, while listening to what needs to be said to sell more stuff. People don't climb the top of the industry ladder by being true to themselves and speaking truth.
Reminds me of SUV commercials, where they show some grocery getter driving up the side of a mountain. Same sh!t, different pile.
 

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Anyone use Sex Panther?

Even though I use aftershave, definitely thinking men are kidding themselves if they think it plays any real part in attracting women. I've had women compliment how great I smell in bed when I have nothing but loreal deodorant on.

I think its very much the icing the cake rather than something that creates any kind of attraction.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone use Sex Panther?
She gets a special cologne. It’s called Sex Panther by Odeon. It’s illegal in nine countries. Yep, it’s made with bits of real panther, so you know it’s good.
 
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She gets a special cologne. It’s called Sex Panther by Odeon. It’s illegal in nine countries. Yep, it’s made with bits of real panther, so you know it’s good.
Yeah, they've done studies, you know. 60% of the time it works, every time.
 

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Yeah, they've done studies, you know. 60% of the time it works, every time.
It's a formidable scent. It stings the nostrils, in a good way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It’s a perfume. Narcisse by Chloe is a perfume. It’s discontinued some years ago.
 
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