"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To those banging many women

dap

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How do you avoid getting an STD? Do you ask everyone if they've been tested? Do you just rely on condoms? I tried searching the forum and didn't see much advice people had on this. I don't want any goddam STD.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wrap it up and just hope you screened out the skanky ones.. then proceed to hit the g spot and forget about your fears
 

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I'm pretty sure I've contracted HPV from my ex-wife. It's not a major thing and there's no way to test for it in men. 50% of Americans will get it in their lifetime.

Condoms are your best bet, but filtering out the wh0res is a good move too.
 

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dap said:
I don't want any goddam STD.
Then wrap it up. And don't get rid of the condom with a girl unless you've been seeing her for a while, trust her, and know she's not seeing anyone else. But even then you're taking a big risk.

I try to focus on hot women that usually have very busy work lives, they tend to have less busy "social" lives if you know what i mean
 

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There is also an HPV vaccine available for men (Gardasil). You get three shots over 6 months and insurance will only pay for it if you are under 26 (in the US), so I'd recommend getting this if you haven't. Prevents most genital warts and HPV-causing cervical cancer in women.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The way I manage the condom issue is i'll use em when I first meet a girl. After I know she is going to be my steady partner for a while i'll start suggesting we stop using them. But always use them with someone you do not know well...
 
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