dap
Senior Don Juan
How do you avoid getting an STD? Do you ask everyone if they've been tested? Do you just rely on condoms? I tried searching the forum and didn't see much advice people had on this. I don't want any goddam STD.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
To those banging many women
- Thread starter dap
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
wrap it up and just hope you screened out the skanky ones.. then proceed to hit the g spot and forget about your fears
Desdinova
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I'm pretty sure I've contracted HPV from my ex-wife. It's not a major thing and there's no way to test for it in men. 50% of Americans will get it in their lifetime.
Condoms are your best bet, but filtering out the wh0res is a good move too.
Condoms are your best bet, but filtering out the wh0res is a good move too.
Then wrap it up. And don't get rid of the condom with a girl unless you've been seeing her for a while, trust her, and know she's not seeing anyone else. But even then you're taking a big risk.dap said:
I try to focus on hot women that usually have very busy work lives, they tend to have less busy "social" lives if you know what i mean
dap
Senior Don Juan
There is also an HPV vaccine available for men (Gardasil). You get three shots over 6 months and insurance will only pay for it if you are under 26 (in the US), so I'd recommend getting this if you haven't. Prevents most genital warts and HPV-causing cervical cancer in women.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SgtSplacker
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The way I manage the condom issue is i'll use em when I first meet a girl. After I know she is going to be my steady partner for a while i'll start suggesting we stop using them. But always use them with someone you do not know well...