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Senior Don Juan
How do you avoid getting an STD? Do you ask everyone if they've been tested? Do you just rely on condoms? I tried searching the forum and didn't see much advice people had on this. I don't want any goddam STD.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.