dap
Senior Don Juan
How do you avoid getting an STD? Do you ask everyone if they've been tested? Do you just rely on condoms? I tried searching the forum and didn't see much advice people had on this. I don't want any goddam STD.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
To those banging many women
- Thread starter dap
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
wrap it up and just hope you screened out the skanky ones.. then proceed to hit the g spot and forget about your fears
Desdinova
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I'm pretty sure I've contracted HPV from my ex-wife. It's not a major thing and there's no way to test for it in men. 50% of Americans will get it in their lifetime.
Condoms are your best bet, but filtering out the wh0res is a good move too.
Condoms are your best bet, but filtering out the wh0res is a good move too.
Then wrap it up. And don't get rid of the condom with a girl unless you've been seeing her for a while, trust her, and know she's not seeing anyone else. But even then you're taking a big risk.dap said:
I try to focus on hot women that usually have very busy work lives, they tend to have less busy "social" lives if you know what i mean
dap
Senior Don Juan
There is also an HPV vaccine available for men (Gardasil). You get three shots over 6 months and insurance will only pay for it if you are under 26 (in the US), so I'd recommend getting this if you haven't. Prevents most genital warts and HPV-causing cervical cancer in women.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SgtSplacker
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The way I manage the condom issue is i'll use em when I first meet a girl. After I know she is going to be my steady partner for a while i'll start suggesting we stop using them. But always use them with someone you do not know well...