I was thinking that I want to further myself in being a challenge. I've been on a date 3 times with this girl and at the end of all 3 I've either kissed her or made out with her. So I was thinking that at the end of the next one, I'd lean in like I'm going to kiss her, smile, and then walk away. What do you think?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
To not kiss on the next date
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Why wait? Kiss her! Lik said it best - it could work, but it would more likely backfire. You have to take what you want. Who cares what she wants? You want some action, so take it! This 'going too fast' bullsh*t is for pvssies. She wants it too. Be a challenge in other ways.
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Master Don Juan
Are you trying to be funny? "Being a challenge" means not being her little toy to control, not just plain being a prick. If my chick did that to me, I'd probably do the same thing back to her on the next TWO dates out of spite, if she even GOT two dates with me again.Originally posted by bud_2005
I was thinking that I want to further myself in being a challenge. I've been on a date 3 times with this girl and at the end of all 3 I've either kissed her or made out with her. So I was thinking that at the end of the next one, I'd lean in like I'm going to kiss her, smile, and then walk away. What do you think?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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just get creative with your kissing! Keep things fresh, and mentally she'll challenge herself to keep you.