"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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to many plates...need advice and my phone just crashed so i lost most number

fuko2007

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ok guys. I just got out of a bad relationship so ive been trying to spin some plates. LOTS of plates. Well i went out with one lastnight whom ive never met and she told me she had just gotten out of a relationship last week. Shes a nice girl but red flag. i still have 3 other ones im talking to but i think they are starting to get mad because of my time issues due to so many plates.

And like i said my phone reset its self so now im in the dark and will have to wait untill they text me. But what if they take it as sighn that this guy is like fuc* off. Im just pissed because i was on my game for about two weeks now im starting to fuc* it all up. Any advice out there?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Purefilth

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Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
 

fuko2007

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Purefilth said:
Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
thanks man good advice..i might go to bed before 12 for once tonight haha
 

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you know you can go out to your phone services website and track your phone calls/texts and figure out which ones are their numbers.
 

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I think u solved your own problem by losing all their numbers. Dont worry about what they think you don't owe them antthing and you're not committed. If anything they may think ur busy and have other options, which may drive their interest level up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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