"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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to many plates...need advice and my phone just crashed so i lost most number

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fuko2007

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ok guys. I just got out of a bad relationship so ive been trying to spin some plates. LOTS of plates. Well i went out with one lastnight whom ive never met and she told me she had just gotten out of a relationship last week. Shes a nice girl but red flag. i still have 3 other ones im talking to but i think they are starting to get mad because of my time issues due to so many plates.

And like i said my phone reset its self so now im in the dark and will have to wait untill they text me. But what if they take it as sighn that this guy is like fuc* off. Im just pissed because i was on my game for about two weeks now im starting to fuc* it all up. Any advice out there?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
 
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Purefilth said:
Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
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thanks man good advice..i might go to bed before 12 for once tonight haha
 
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you know you can go out to your phone services website and track your phone calls/texts and figure out which ones are their numbers.
 
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I think u solved your own problem by losing all their numbers. Dont worry about what they think you don't owe them antthing and you're not committed. If anything they may think ur busy and have other options, which may drive their interest level up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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