"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

to many plates...need advice and my phone just crashed so i lost most number

fuko2007

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
16
Location
South Carolina
ok guys. I just got out of a bad relationship so ive been trying to spin some plates. LOTS of plates. Well i went out with one lastnight whom ive never met and she told me she had just gotten out of a relationship last week. Shes a nice girl but red flag. i still have 3 other ones im talking to but i think they are starting to get mad because of my time issues due to so many plates.

And like i said my phone reset its self so now im in the dark and will have to wait untill they text me. But what if they take it as sighn that this guy is like fuc* off. Im just pissed because i was on my game for about two weeks now im starting to fuc* it all up. Any advice out there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Purefilth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
2,749
Reaction score
73
Location
BEAST MODE [ON]
Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
 

fuko2007

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
16
Location
South Carolina
Purefilth said:
Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
thanks man good advice..i might go to bed before 12 for once tonight haha
 

j0504s

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
22
Location
ConcernedLauries Bed w/ olivia...NY/SoFlo
you know you can go out to your phone services website and track your phone calls/texts and figure out which ones are their numbers.
 

incognito42

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2005
Messages
505
Reaction score
14
Age
40
I think u solved your own problem by losing all their numbers. Dont worry about what they think you don't owe them antthing and you're not committed. If anything they may think ur busy and have other options, which may drive their interest level up
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top