"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

to many plates...need advice and my phone just crashed so i lost most number

fuko2007

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
16
Location
South Carolina
ok guys. I just got out of a bad relationship so ive been trying to spin some plates. LOTS of plates. Well i went out with one lastnight whom ive never met and she told me she had just gotten out of a relationship last week. Shes a nice girl but red flag. i still have 3 other ones im talking to but i think they are starting to get mad because of my time issues due to so many plates.

And like i said my phone reset its self so now im in the dark and will have to wait untill they text me. But what if they take it as sighn that this guy is like fuc* off. Im just pissed because i was on my game for about two weeks now im starting to fuc* it all up. Any advice out there?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Purefilth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
2,749
Reaction score
73
Location
BEAST MODE [ON]
Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
 

fuko2007

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
16
Location
South Carolina
Purefilth said:
Nice to have some breathing space now and again :up:.

Seriously though - get more plates. If these dont get back to you then its their loss. If they do - then the balls in your court. Dont stress it man. Just enjoy the spare time now you have it.
thanks man good advice..i might go to bed before 12 for once tonight haha
 

j0504s

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
22
Location
ConcernedLauries Bed w/ olivia...NY/SoFlo
you know you can go out to your phone services website and track your phone calls/texts and figure out which ones are their numbers.
 

incognito42

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2005
Messages
505
Reaction score
14
Age
40
I think u solved your own problem by losing all their numbers. Dont worry about what they think you don't owe them antthing and you're not committed. If anything they may think ur busy and have other options, which may drive their interest level up
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Top