To Cheat or not to cheat

[HandyAndy]

But he said shes "great"

 

[iCatch]

I think I just may have the perfect solution here. I'm a guy with morals and I would NEVER think of cheating on my girl. For those of you that don't quite have the views I have and just want to get pvssy then I think this would help solve things where all of us would be happy.

TO ME
Immoral : cheating
Moral : staying faithful; doing things if gf is ok with it

TO SOME OF YOU
Cheating : happy ****

Combine both of those ideas and what do you get?
THREESOME

 

[Wodan]

I would recommend that you cheat but do it properly, get a new simcard for your phone and give hb10 the number for that one so your gf cant ever catch you reading messages or speaking with her, as only 1 can get in touch while that card is in

You may end up prefering her to your GF, at the end of the day were here to evolve. You thinking a girl is 10/10 is your body telling you thats the best person to have kids with.

Ill only cheat on my gf if the other girl is better looking, which i hink is fair. And if i chose to switch id just have arguments and say it isnt working out while im transitioning.

 

[MacAvoy]

If this steak is so good and you love it, why want something else?

Think : If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

icatch

Do you honestly think you could eat Stake as your only meat for the rest of your life? The reason you don't is because you haven't been brainwashed to think that you have to be monogamous to one food like you have been with women.

You can keep your morals, personally I'm going to experience everything life has to offer.

 

[TheHumanist]

This is why I have an issue with all of this, with all the saying that there are multiple paths and there's no need to bash the other side (or at least KontrollerX points out). That as long the person happy, what does it matter. Yet, I just saw that one of the path just been called brainwashed and missing out on life.

 

[BeyondCharm]

Basically if you are going to cheat, be ready to be honest about it it ever comes up. Honesty is the most important thing for your relationship with your gf. So, if you set your morals aside and simply do what you want with the HB10 then consider the following.

#1. You should let the HB10 know that you have a GF and that this is just for fun between you too. She needs to know this so that she is not led to believe she has a shot at being "with you". Also this helps you evaluate if she's cool enough to do the dirty with you and keep it between the two of you or if she's going to gossip and make drama for you.

#2. Some people, your gf possibly included, live by the don't ask don't tell policy. But if she is your gf and you love her and she asks you if you have been with another women, then it is your duty to tell her to truth and be honest. However, you don't need to go off and spill your entire life story to somebody who doesn't see a problem.

So basically: If your relationship with your gf works currently and if you believe sleeping around with this HB10 won't break anything, then its simply a matter of morals and what you want to do. There is not absolute right or wrong here, it comes down to you.

Good luck!~

 

[BeyondCharm]

icatch

Do you honestly think you could eat Stake as your only meat for the rest of your life? The reason you don't is because you haven't been brainwashed to think that you have to be monogamous to one food like you have been with women.

You can keep your morals, personally I'm going to experience everything life has to offer.

MacAvoy, I am your father. *draws light saber from pants to prove it*

 

[young_gun]

You guys don't have a clue.

A fulfilling relationship is so much more satisfying than a one night stand. You don't cheat on your girlfriend, and you don't aid a girl into cheating on her boyfriend. If you don't want your girl to cheat on you (if you've never had it happen you shouldn't even participate in this thread) then don't do it to her. You're a DJ, you have options, and you don't need to mend your fragile ego by cheating on her. Hot girls aren't going anywhere. I can't imagine dating someone for 5 years, telling them I love them (don't tell me you haven't) and going behind their back and completely disrespecting them to mend my stupid ego.

Stupid fvcks.

 

[MacAvoy]

MacAvoy, I am your father. *draws light saber from pants to prove it*

I missed the joke, can you explain it?

 

[MacAvoy]

A fulfilling relationship is so much more satisfying than a one night stand.

I agree 100%. But a fulfilling relationship and having the odd ONS is much more satisfying than just a fulfilling relationship. The problem is 99.9% of men don't have the skills to successfully pull off both. They are idiots & leave a trail & get caught which leads to the end of the relationship which obviously wasn't fulfilling for them.

If fulfilling relationships are all that, then why such a high failure rate? I cheated on my last oneitis dozens of times, she to this day still has no clue and it had zero negative impact on our relationship. However, I'm not your typical Joe Smoe, I'm good at what I do.

 

[Da Realist]

This site was set up to give advice to guys who wanted to become men and part of that is learning to quit thinking with that little head of yours. Think about what you're really doing: you're going to sneak off to be with some chick that really isn't worth much if all you want to do is have a one night stand. In other words, you're really putting this new girl on a pedistal and think she's worth messing up what you have. I mean, I can understand if she's a bad chick and you're really upgrading, but beyond that you're doing better to make the one you're with see stars every night that trying to wear yourself out playing loverboy. Just a thought.

 

[TheHumanist]

I agree 100%. But a fulfilling relationship and having the odd ONS is much more satisfying than just a fulfilling relationship. The problem is 99.9% of men don't have the skills to successfully pull off both. They are idiots & leave a trail & get caught which leads to the end of the relationship which obviously wasn't fulfilling for them.

If fulfilling relationships are all that, then why such a high failure rate? I cheated on my last oneitis dozens of times, she to this day still has no clue and it had zero negative impact on our relationship. However, I'm not your typical Joe Smoe, I'm good at what I do.

Fair enough, if you find no trouble with your actions and perfer to cover it up, that's your way. No need to call anyone who want to not cheat and thinks it the correct act because you don't want her to do it even in secret and thus don't want to do it oneself as brainwashed and missing out.

 

[rdf63]

Don't be stupid. If you want to cheat on her then be respectful and break up the relationship. The answer is NO!

 

[MacAvoy]

Humanist,

You mentioned bashing the other side twice and the second time you quoted me. Can you show me where I did such a thing?

 

[SmoothTalker]

It baffles me why adult men can't grasp a concept taught to kids. Do onto others as you want others to do onto you.

It doesn't matter if she finds out about it or not. If you are a decent person, don't do **** to a girl that you wouldn't want her doing to you.

If its not serious then of course, have plates, that's perfectly fine. She probably has other guys she's dating also.

But when two people specifically agree to be in an EXCLUSIVE relationship with eachother, cheating is low and not something you should be doing regardless of whether you can get away with it or not. And don't give me that evolutionary bull****, if you want to spread your seed that's great,just simply don't commit.

I'm sure our ancesters didn't worry too much about private property either, so why don't we all start stealing whatever we want whenever we think we can get away with it. After all, I'm sure evolution has programmed us to get what we want for the lowest possible cost, no?


It really is not complicated. If you expect your girlfriend to be faithful to you, return the goddamn favour. IF you think she isn't faithful, then break up or just call it an open relationship and everybody is happy. Cheating is wrong and you guys know it, or else you would feel no need to hide it from your partner.

 

[MacAvoy]

If she can get away with it without me finding out, more power to her. What you don't know, doesn't hurt you.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Alright, i need some quick advice. I have a great G/f i've been dating for 5 years. But along comes this hb10 that i know i can get. Should i go for it? You only live once. Or should i do the right thing? I know a few guys who cheat all the time on there girls (its funny cause its no big deal to them lol).

Anyways what do you guys think?

I will be honest with you.

It depends on your personality. Some people can cheat, kiss their girl good night, and sleep like a baby. Some people will feel guilty. I would go for it, and I've done it, with HB8's and maybe a HB9. I never felt bad about it, never told her, she never found out.

It's up to you man. If you can't live with the guilt, don't do it. You'll take a shower immediately after. You'll want to "was the cheat off" and you may eventually tell her one day which could cause problems. Or you'll get it done, and enjoy it.

Try watching the movie Unfaithful starring Richard Gere. You will see what could happen when a married woman cheats, and you may be able to relate.

PS - After you cheat, and realize how easy it actually is to not get caught, you may start to become extremely insecure. This happened to me, and I would start questioning my girls every move, and wanted to know where she was at all times, which ultimately pushed her further and further away. You may want to consider that.

http://www.somethingawful.com/d/news/how-cheat-on.php - a funny, satirical way of looking at things.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith/getiton1.html - a serious article, do read.

 

[pricey rowe]

i live my life as tomorrow is not promised, i never put faith in any woman other than mom. maybe because i am a dog and sleep with alot of woman(sometimes 2-3 a day) but i say go!, go conquer that azz. your penis will thank u.

 

[trv26]

If you don't want your girl to cheat on you (if you've never had it happen you shouldn't even participate in this thread) then don't do it to her.

One small problem with that. Being faithful to ur girlfirend does not always mean she'll be faithful to u too.

 

[TheHumanist]

Let me apologize ahead if you feel that I'm singling you out or attacking you, I'm not. It just while I sese an occasional post that says there are multiple ways, I see many that when two sides conflict, there is always an insinuation saying the other side is flawed.

icatch

Do you honestly think you could eat Stake as your only meat for the rest of your life? The reason you don't is because you haven't been brainwashed to think that you have to be monogamous to one food like you have been with women.

You can keep your morals, personally I'm going to experience everything life has to offer.

While you might be addressing to him, there's little clause against that anyone else who think like him is also "brainwashed" and while you didn't said direct anyone whose no is missing out, it does says that anyone who don't do it is not experiencing everything life have to offer.